Is your little one ready for school this September?

September always seems to creep up on us! One minute you're juggling picnics in the park and sticky ice-creams, the next you're staring at a new uniform that looks far too big and wondering how on earth your little baby is about to start school.

It's a huge milestone, for children and parents, and it's perfectly normal to feel a mix of excitement, pride and even a little bit worried.

So, how can you help your child feel ready for this big step? Here are a few gentle, practical tips to ease the transition.

1. Practice the morning routine

Mornings can be chaotic, so a little practice goes a long way. Try having a few “school mornings” before term starts: waking up at the right time, getting dressed, having breakfast, and maybe even popping on shoes and coats as if you were heading out. It helps children get used to the rhythm – and it means you can figure out if those new shoes really do take ten minutes to put on!

2. Encourage independence

Teachers don’t expect children to do everything themselves, but it really helps if they can manage a few basics. Putting on their own coat, having a go at zips and buttons, washing hands properly, and opening lunch boxes or snack pots are great little skills to practise. Let them try things on their own, even if it takes longer. Their confidence will grow every time.

3. Talk about what to expect

For many children, the unknown is the scariest part. Chat about what school will be like: “You’ll have a peg for your coat,” or “There’ll be a story corner.” If you know the teacher’s name or have photos from a settling-in session, use them.

4. Build social skills

If your child hasn’t spent much time with other children, playdates or trips to the playground can help. Turn-taking, sharing and asking for help are big skills in a classroom. Board games or role-play at home are surprisingly helpful too.

5. Get into the school sleep routine

Summer bedtimes often slide later and later, but early starts are easier if children are well rested. Start shifting bedtime back gradually in the weeks before school begins. A calm bedtime routine – story, cuddle, lights out – helps signal that busy days need restful nights.

6. Keep it light

Above all, try not to put too much pressure on either of you. Your child doesn't need to read or write before school; the teachers are there to guide them. What matters most is that they feel happy, secure, and ready to explore.

And remember, this is a big transition for parents too! That first day might feel emotional (bring tissues – for you, not them). But watching your child take those first steps into school life is incredibly special. With a bit of gentle preparation, you’ll both be ready to embrace September with smiles.