Random acts of Kindness Day: teaching little ones big values

Every year on 17^th February, the UK celebrates Random acts of Kindness Day. A special day that encourages people of all ages to spread kindness through small, thoughtful actions. Whether it’s giving someone a compliment, helping a neighbour, or doing something generous for a stranger, the message is simple: kindness matters.

While Random acts of Kindness Day is often associated with adults buying a coffee for someone or volunteering in the community, it is also a wonderful opportunity to teach young children that even the smallest gesture can make a big difference.

In the early years, children are learning how to understand their own emotions, build friendships, and interact with others. These are important skills that shape how they will communicate and connect with the world as they grow. By introducing the idea of kindness in a simple and meaningful way, we help children develop empathy, patience, and respect for others.

For nursery ages children, kindness might look like sharing a toy, helping a friend tidy up, or giving someone a cuddle when they feel sad. These moments may seem small, but they teach children that being kind makes other people feel happy, safe, and included. 

At nursery and pre-school, Random acts of Kindness Day can be celebrated through simple activities that children understand and enjoy. We might encourage children to make a kind message or picture for a friend, help a younger child with their coat, or take turns giving compliments during circle time. Even small things like holding the door open, sharing snack time, or offering to help an adult can become meaningful lessons.

One of the most important parts of teaching kindness is showing children that it isn’t something we only do on special days. Random acts of Kindness Day is a lovely reminder, but the goal is to encourage kindness every day.

Children learn best by example, so when they see adults being kind, patient, and supportive, they naturally begin to copy those behaviours. Praise and encouragement also help them understand that kindness is something to be proud of.

Random acts of Kindness Day is a beautiful chance to pause, reflect, and celebrate the caring nature that children already have. By nurturing kindness in the early years, we are helping to raise children who grow into thoughtful, compassionate individuals